I was fascinated to discover that something like ‘Middle Child Day’ exists! If only I knew that a few years ago, there could have been one more special day to celebrate myself other than my birthday. Middle child day is a day to celebrate the ‘ignored’ ones in the family and give them a special day of their own.
A big shout out to all my fellow middlers who always felt like lettuce sandwiched between the two siblings, the wiser elder and the cuter younger, and you….just existed! Often labeled as mediocre, just not in family hierarchy but in all aspects, middle children often grow up with the least parental attention and constant sibling comparison. This sometimes results in resentment and insecurity that is carried on into adulthood.
But despite all the bitter-sweet experiences, middle children develop some critical problem-solving skills. They are known to be independent, go-getters, reliable, and often blessed with a good sense of humor. In fact, middlers show some distinct personality traits as they become adults. The life experiences of being the “forgotten” sibling turn into life skills like compassion, diplomacy, and flexibility. Because they often had to figure things out on their own, they tend to become more self-sufficient and resourceful as compared to their siblings.
On a lighter note, though I don’t have statistics handy, I believe some occupations, are better suited for middle children like:
- Lawyers, because they have always been advocating and fighting for themselves
- Arbitrators because they have years of negotiating and mediation experience between the two extremes.
- Marketers, as they know how to position themselves in various situations.
- Leadership roles for their risk-taking ability, resourcefulness, and proven teamwork
Middle Child Day is not just about celebrating the in-betweeners; it’s also a day for parents to recognize the unique position they hold in the family hierarchy. So, parents, let me break it down for you: they are quietly observing, absorbing, and evolving. They may not demand the spotlight like their siblings, but they sure know how to dazzle when given the chance.
And to my parents, thank you for nurturing this middle child into a blend of determination, independence, adaptability, and just the right amount of sass.
If you are a middle child, today’s a wonderful excuse to pamper yourself.
To the siblings of a middle child, this is your chance to redeem yourselves.
To the parents, let the spotlight be on your middle child today with a promise of giving them equal attention.
And to all others, make August 12th memorable by making friends with middlers. I bet you will have some loyal and fun-loving companions for life.
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